Once a high school teacher told our class that most true long lasting friendships form in high school:— The older you get, the harder it is to find like minded people and make connections. True, the older we get, the more we set in our ways, the less we’re willing to budge. And every relationship…
Slovenian Kranška Jota Soup
Summer has never been my time of the year. Demi-seasons are my favorite. But this year, for the first time I’ve seen other people doing actual countdowns to fall — hang in there, people, only a few days left. My daughter’s reaction to my this longing for cooler days manifestation was:— You know what, mom,…
AbuQir, an Egyptian Restaurant in Astoria, Queens, NY
Astoria, Queens, is known for its Greek neighborhood. But once off the W train and a little east along Astoria Boulevard, there are three blocks of Steinway Street known as Little Egypt with large Egyptian, Bangladeshi, Moroccan, Tunisian, and Algerian population, their stores, restaurants, hookah lounges, and that specific smell of sweet smoke. This is…
Uno Más, a Contemporary Mexican Restaurant in Allendale, NJ
Reunions after some time has gone by make me cautious. People change, I change. Passing time creates awareness of significance of good memories. Should they be challenged, even sacrificed, to an attempt to revisit and make them relevant? Like in that movie, an exchange between a British sixty-something couple returning to Paris after thirty years…
Pho Thai Lao Kitchen in Maywood, NJ
As I rarely cook something twice, rarely we go twice to the same restaurant. Our state is one of the most diverse and inclusive ones. Plus, the city is close and, in the city, there is Queens, the most ethnically diverse urban area on the planet. To choose a place to go to is a…
Aegean Estiatorio, a Greek restaurant in Park Ridge, NJ
There used to be a Greek restaurant next to my studio. A new family took over it and now it’s… Greek. But what a difference a family makes. You walk into Aegean Estiatorio like a friend and leave like a family. Amazing how two people can change the vibe of the place and make it…
Kashkar Cafe on Brighton Beach in Brooklyn, NY
Our annual pilgrimage to Coney Island. You’d think I am drawn there by things I miss. Nope. On the contrary, things I don’t miss pull me here. Sort of an affirmation that it was the right decision.  The words “Coney Island” do not revoke any nostalgia at all besides that of watching good bootlegged…
Tom’s Jerk Chicken
Good jerk hurts — smoke gets in your eyes, scotch bonnets burn from within. Good jerk is hard — hard to find, hard to recreate, hard to photograph. Good jerk takes time — days of marinating, hours of smoking. Good jerk can be so good! When you find a good jerk, try not to lose…
Mariscos El Submarino in Jackson Heights, Queens, NY
Pete Wells included Mariscos El Submarino in 2023 New York Times list of 100 Best Restaurants in NYC — together with Le Bernadin, Atomic, Via Carota, Daniel, Silver Apricot, Le Coucou, Aquavit to name a few. We’ve been to some places from the list. The line up is less about smoke and mirrors and more…
Lakruwana, Sri Lankan Restaurant in Staten Island, NY
Staten Island — and it’s [stætn], not [steiten] so you know — is the most overlooked city borough on our list. The Forgotten one is hidden by the glitz and skyscrapers of Manhattan, melting-pot-like diversity of Queens and the Bronx, and hip vibes of Brooklyn. We’re catching up. As if by request, by the weekend,…